Though external circumstances influence a person but if he is strong internally, he would not be affected. Every person enjoys his happiness and also braves sufferings and disappointments by himself. He himself is responsible for his own deeds. The results of his deeds would not be enjoyed by others. Nobody could escape from the results of his own deeds. So in the life of a person, sometime there is happiness and sometime unhappiness, sometime the ituation of laughing and sometimes crying comes. Mind is a lake where the waves of pleasure and sorrow always continue to move. So do not become depressed when there is distress. When there is darkness of circumstances, light the lamp of strength in your mind, the darkness would disappear. Do not let the faith in God be broken. It has a great power. Faith would become your strength.

When sadness comes into your life, let the flowers of smile blossom. Smile more when you are sad. Do not let the patience be broken. Balance yourself and encourage yourself; wipe your tears yourself. There are lots of people in this world but it is a fact that each person has to live alone. The pleasure and pain as a result of one’s deeds is to be endured by oneself only. People would be with you at the time of joy but will leave you at the time of distress.

Do not become weak in adverse circumstances otherwise the powers which make you weak would overpower you. He is a good commander who would not let his army become weak. He would not let the strength of mind and bravery be broken. You are the commander at your home. If trouble comes, do not let the strength of mind, of family to be broken. Do not weep before the world for your problems. World would only laugh at you. Cry only before God.
Remember, everyone in this world, who comes here, had wept at one time or the other, be it Lord Rama or Lord Krishna, whosoever takes birth in this world also weeps. The birth of a human being starts from weeping. With the very first breath of life every human cries.

Think over it again and again. Keep yourself like the lotus, which is standing tall above the water, stays in the world but does not get entangled with the world. This is the way of life. I want that you think over this. This is the way to one’s own good. As you ponder deeper you would find that self-satisfaction would begin to emerge within you. One who has satisfaction he would have happiness on his face. A person who has happiness on his face would get sweetness in his voice; and his deeds would have fragrance. That man would get immersed fully in pleasure. Pleasure would be noticed in everything that he does. If he makes pictures, they would be beautiful; if he will sing then that will also be melodious; whatever he does, would have a uniqueness to it.

Therefore, this knowledge should be relished. Take this knowledge in such a way that it would reflect in your own deeds. A man in whom the pleasure begins to flow, it would reflect in all his deeds. Hope you would ponder over it and think before being a doer.