Focus on just ‘one aspect’ to deepen your relationship | Sudhanshu Ji Maharaj

Focus on just ‘one aspect’ to deepen your relationship | Sudhanshu Ji Maharaj

Focus on just ‘one aspect’ to deepen your relationship

In life, relationships are vital for a lot of reasons. It helps people in realizing their self-worth and boosts their emotional well-being. It also builds a sense of stability in them as they know they have some people in life to count on in testing times. And sometimes, strong relationships help in managing deeper emotions.

Everyone needs caring relationships

Further, nothing takes loneliness and despondency away like family, friends and partners. These bonds help people to grow in life and stay aspirational. Certainly, without relationships, it would be difficult for many people to keep up a vibrant spirit and make a strong connection to their true selves.

Needless to say all men & women need relationships in their lives.  And those who give importance to relationships focus on one of its aspects by heart.

That aspect is nothing but ‘Ego’. They let it go whenever it emerges in their journey. And they do it by choice.

Indeed, those who give importance to their relationships never give importance to rigidity. They stay humble. They tolerate the temporary behaviour of their loved ones during the time of disputes by paying no heed to their own ego.

They understand that their relationship is more precious than ego. They also know that anything can be sacrificed for maintaining a beautiful relationship since it is not less than life. They have etched it in their hearts that love & care is based on sacrifice and it cannot sustain itself on the foundation of selfishness.

So, try to know how to endure to some extent and how to tolerate each other’s momentary emotion to some extent, your relationship will grow strength by strength despite temporary problems.

Letting go of Ego

Ego can easily ruin friendships and create disputes between family members. So, those who work to keep their ego away, try to have a high level of self-esteem, instead of ego.

This should be the way as well because being egotistic is negative while having high levels of self-esteem is positive. An egotistical person’s self-respect is driven by external factors- like others’ opinions, but a person with high self-esteem’s self-respect is determined by internal aspects like faith, self-worth, or vision.

And people having a high level of self-worth value relationships more. They always focus on letting go of their ego.

So, try to be a person of self-esteem. It makes you confident and full of self-love that you spread naturally among those who matter in your life.

Moreover, this is also a fact that almost everyone possesses some amount of ego, however it can be controlled. Such restrain helps people stay away from unnecessary turmoil and other negative feelings like fear, anger, resentment, and jealousy that are all byproducts of the ego.

So, everyone should try to control ego? Here’s how you can do that.

When the mind is replete with doubts on certain beh

Stay Clear of Fictitious Stories

aviour of his or her loved ones, it goes wild with mindless thoughts- most of which are imaginary- based on prejudices. Try to stay away from such false mental pictures; set aside your ego and communicate about any such behaviour in a positive manner.

In most cases, you’ll find that you have received the answer to your confusion.

No need to be right all the time

To err is human! If you know that you are wrong in any family matter, accept it humbly. Your ego won’t allow it but understand that the desire to always be right can really ruin relationships.

At some point, also realize that your false self-worth is keeping you away from true happiness. So, accept your mistake and move on. It will help you greatly in keeping your relationships intact.

You deserve positivity in life, know that!

Also, before showing or expressing love & care for others begin loving yourself. Understand that you also deserve positivity in life; you deserve loving relationships in life and you deserve inner peace and happiness.

So, never let your ego cross your path. Control it for other crucial priorities in your life, which is happiness and peace.

Do practice random acts of Kindness

At times, go out of your way to do something nice for your family, friends, and loved ones. It will help you become humble and you’ll understand the impact of random acts of kindness. It will make you feel good and you’ll forget all about your ego.

Sometimes, embrace the magical art of letting go!

And most importantly, know that firmly hanging on to issues will only stop you from moving ahead in life because here, your ego is feeding on your emotion. It tries to put you on a negative path that leads to darkness and sadness.

So sometimes, just let things go like a meditative soul. You’ll feel much better.

Therefore, let other things-pleasant or unpleasant- happen in your relationship, focus on just one aspect-your ego and try to control it. You’ll see that your relationships are staying strong and for long enabling you to live an easy, comfortable, and blissful life.

Grace turns the mind into a source of wonderful thoughts

1 Comment

  1. Suresh Sharma says:

    Saadar Hari Oum Guruji

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