Never Allow Circumstances Break You

When you’re going through a difficult phase in your life you might feel like things won’t change now, or be pondering what you did to deserve such bad circumstances.

However, a helpful way to deal with bad phases that are out of your control is to practise gratitude and fight bravely with a positive attitude. So, instead of seeing yourself as a victim of your situation as negative, stay optimistic. Positivity and God’s blessings make you feel empowered about the things you can do to come out of any bad phase in life.

Everyone Faces Tough Circumstances

Tough circumstances may appear in anybody’s life at any age. You just have to be courageous if you are facing any such circumstance. And no matter what is your age, you can turn the situation in your favour with courage. Without willpower and audacity, however, you cannot do anything- it doesn’t matter whether you are young or old. You’ll keep making excuses: if I were young, I would do; if I had support, I would do; if I had resources, I would do, and many such excuses.

So, no matter what you are facing right now; be strong and take decisions for a new beginning. Keep patience and stay enthusiastic. Never allow yourself to reach the breaking point and forget that such a point even exists in your life. You can win over your bad luck, diseases, mental stress, anxiety, depression, financial troubles, or any other difficult situation and invite good luck into your life.

All you need is mental preparation for the win.

Motivate Yourself

Don’t wait for others to motivate you. Talk to yourself and motivate yourself. Your own life, past successes and positive stories are your real motivators. When someone achieves success after facing difficulties, it’s a unique kind of bliss. You also might have felt such bliss at some point of time. Remember that. It will motivate you.

When you pass hurdles in life with hard work, it makes you stronger. Your hard work is a kind of penance that ultimately makes you stronger. Your perseverance is also a kind of penance. When you boost your power of endurance, that’s also a kind of penance, but you’ve to maintain an optimistic attitude to reap their benefits.

When you are optimistic, the thoughts that emerge in your mind are full of positive vibes. When you are pessimistic, you find the spread of grief and negativity all around you. And as soon as you get positive, good things start connecting with your life.

Understand that a majority of thoughts in your mind would be pessimistic. The mind is replete with thoughts of anxiety, fear, sadness, scarcity, doubts, and other negativity. Such thoughts are mostly imposed on your mind and they also show up on the face, removing its shine and happiness. Don’t let them impact your positivity.

Focus on Blessings

Further, start focussing on God’s blessings in your life by changing your perspective. Say it to yourself that you are in a better circumstance than a large number of people. God is showering His kind blessings upon you and He will bless you in the future as well. You are moving towards victory and you are happy. When you focus on problems, your problems increase but when you focus on solutions, you start finding options to resolve your issues.

Likewise, when you focus on grief, your sadness increases and so, focus on happiness and you’ll get chances of celebrating life.

Think about such aspects of your life for which you can feel grateful towards God. Focus on His powers and start thanking Him. You’ll see God’s blessings are arriving in your life. So, while offering your daily prayers, show gratitude and seek His continued support in your life. It will bring positivity into your inner world.

Understand that you’ve got two choices when something bad happens to you. You can struggle with these circumstances and suffer since you can’t control them, or you can accept them and move on with positivity, courage, and faith in God. Positivity is something worth inculcating like a good virtue. The better you infuse it into your life, the easier you’ll find it when bad circumstances emerge in your life.

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