How to Strengthen your Nuptial Bond 

In India, marriage connects two people in a bond that purportedly lasts forever. It is a beautiful bond undeniably, as here, two strangers are taking care of each other, gaining strength from each other, and facing the challenges in life together. For peace and prosperity in a family, marriage and this bond should always be intact and if problems arrive, they should be solved with care and kindness.  Any married person can learn lessons from Lord Shiv and Goddess Parvati.

Love Unconditionally like Lord Shiv and Goddess Parvati 

Love and mutual respect are the key components of a successful marriage. Even today, Lord Shiv and Goddess Parvati are considered the perfect couple and it is impossible to match their sacred relationship. 

Lord Shiv loved Goddess Parvati unconditionally and did not hesitate to take extreme steps to save Her honor. She is equal to him in all senses. She sits next to Lord Shiv, neither at his feet nor behind Him. Both respect each other’s independence and are deeply in love. Of course, it’s almost impossible to emulate them, but you can learn a few lessons and keep the conjugal bond intact despite disputes and differences.

Accept That Everyone is Unique 

Accept the individuality of everyone and stay away from unrealistic expectations from each other. They lead to unnecessary frustration and sometimes cause the failure of a relationship. No one is perfect here and therefore, respect all, including your spouse, despite each one’s drawbacks.

Practice Compassion Every Day

Empathy and compassion are essential to keep the marital bond strong. Marriage is all about compassion and understanding, sacrifice and empathy, accepting each other naturally, respecting each other’s flaws. Complimenting your partner’s way of dressing or even a smile sometimes (when he/she is angry) is a loving gesture of acceptance. Use compassion to solve conflicts, critical issues and this will enable a better understanding of each other.

The conversation is the key to each other’s heart

Keep conversing, whatever be the situation. Be mindful of your partner’s needs and wishes. And at the same time freely express your own wishes too. Have open and unbiased conversations with each other. Learn about each other’s perspective of life, viewpoints on different issues, and don’t feel shy about sharing your truthful opinions because truthfulness strengthens your bond. Devote some time to connect with the thought process of your spouse so that a deep understanding can develop. This is possible through conversation and introspection.

Walk and Imbibe the Beauty of Nature Together

We are busy these days in our own worlds and we often don’t have time for our family. Make an effort to spare some time from your busy schedule for your life partner. Go for a ‘nature walk’ once a week either in a nearby park or somewhere scenic, admire and imbibe the beauty of nature together. Think about the wonders of nature together and talk about it. Nature is miraculous and it has its own natural refreshing power to give you energy and freshness.

Nourish your Relationship Through Spirituality

Spirituality is not a religion, but a lifestyle filled with positivity and inner balance. Spirituality brings peace, happiness, and eternal bliss in all aspects of life including the nuptial bond. Learn to stay happy together, laugh together, and bring balance in your life together. No matter what problems you are facing in your relationship, rediscover the simple delight of life by playing indoor games together, watching a movie TV together, praying together, realizing the immense power of God together, and so on. Develop a habit of reading some good books, scriptures, or words of inspiration every day as they will empower you with positive thoughts. 

An old saying goes, marriages are made in heaven. That is true but it is even more important to maintain the pure essence of the marriage, and this is the responsibility of the two individuals tied in this nuptial bond for life. The strength of a marriage lies in unconditional love for each other, a spirit of sacrifice and acceptance for each other. Remember, a beautiful marital relationship is God’s blessing for mankind. Accept this blessing and be grateful.